The “Self-Care” Misconception

A buddy I met in my psych 101 class at community college, who my friends and I refer to as Tye Dye, is a unique character. Tye Dye was that guy in class who annoyingly participates and shares personal stories EVERY possible chance he gets. To say he was an overachiever is an understatement. He…

Being Pessimistic vs. Being a Realist

I’m writing at a local Starbucks, and some guy I’d see there from time to time sits next to me. He looked like Jacob from the movie Road Trip: long-ish blond hair styled similar to a bowl-cut, but all over the place like he’d just walked out of the strip club. Know-it-all glasses complemented with…

Why Chasing Happiness Won’t Make You Happy

Me: Are you fucking kidding me? On a trampoline? Frat Kid: Yuuuh bro. This week’s gonna be low key the most epic shit ever. Me: What’s better than calling everyone at the party a pussy while sipping on Mike’s Hard Lemonade all night? He didn’t sense the sarcasm, but that is to be expected with…

Try this Psychedelic Experience Write Now

Classmate: Uhhh, I read your paper. Me: Shit. Why would you do that? Classmate: Um because we were supposed to. How the hell did you come up with that? Me: What do you mean? Classmate: You wrote about strippers, a frog held hostage, and had random rap lyrics throughout. Me: Don’t forget about cocaine and…

What Having a Purpose Means (Concise Version)

This post is meant to offer clarity of what having a purpose means in a short & concise manner. What is having a purpose? Your purpose = your mission + The Path you’re on. Without a mission, there is no big picture of what you’re pursuing. Without The Path, we’re susceptible to negative influences that…

Life is a Sprint, Not a Marathon

The “life is a marathon” phrase has become well accepted and commonly used, but is it truly the best representation of how we should approach our goals? Are the characteristics of a marathon truly superior to the characteristics of a sprint? I believe approaching life in the lens of a sprint over a marathon is far…

The “If it’s meant to happen, it’ll happen” Myth

Guy: I want to get my book published. Me: What’s stopping you? Guy: No interest from any agents. Me: Have you made any changes to it? Guy: I’m not making any changes. It’s just right how it is. If it’s meant to happen, it’ll happen. Another convo: Girl: Me and my boyfriend are having problems….